Lesson: 1 Corinthians 14:35 (Ages 9-11)

📖 1 Corinthians 14:35 – Ages 9-11

Explanation

In this verse, the Apostle Paul was giving instructions to the Corinthians about how to behave in church. He was teaching them about the importance of order and respect during worship.

When Paul says, "If they want to learn something, let them ask their own husbands at home," he is reminding us that husbands and wives are a team. Just like how in a relay race, each runner has a specific job to do, husbands and wives support and help each other in different ways. This means that when someone has a question or wants to learn something, they can ask their husbands at home for guidance and wisdom.

Paul also says, "for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in church." This does not mean that women should never speak in church, but rather that they should show respect and follow the rules of the church. Just like how we listen to our teachers in school and raise our hands to ask questions, we should also listen attentively and follow the guidelines when we are in church.

So, this verse is reminding us to be respectful, ask for help when we need it, and follow the rules of the church. It's all about showing love and honor to God and each other.

Kid's Story

Once upon a time, in a small village, there was a curious rabbit named Rosie. Rosie loved visiting the village church to listen to the wise words of the preacher. One day, during the sermon, Rosie had a question about the Bible verse being read aloud.

Excited and eager to learn, Rosie hopped up and asked her question in the middle of the sermon. The other animals in the church were surprised, and the preacher gently reminded Rosie that it's respectful to ask questions at the appropriate time.

After the service, the preacher explained to Rosie that in the Bible, it says that when we have questions or want to learn more, it's best to ask at the right time and place. Just like how grown-ups discuss important matters at home, Rosie learned to save her questions for when it was the right time, like after the sermon. Rosie understood the importance of learning with respect and patience.

Prayer Prompt

Heavenly Father, thank you for teaching us through your Word. Help us to understand that in the Bible, women were asked to listen and learn from their husbands at home, not because they are not important, but because of the customs of that time. Help us to respect and honor each other as you have created us all equally in your image. Amen.

Discussion Questions

What can we learn from this verse about the importance of asking questions to learn more about God's word?
How does this verse show us the importance of respecting different roles and responsibilities within the church?
Why do you think it's important for everyone to have a chance to learn and ask questions about the Bible, whether at home or in church?
How can we show kindness and understanding to others who may have different interpretations or beliefs about this verse?
How can we apply the principle of learning and asking questions respectfully in our own lives and interactions with others?

Life Application

In this verse from 1 Corinthians 14:35, the Apostle Paul is giving instructions about orderly worship in the church. For a child aged 9-11, they can apply the message by understanding the importance of respecting authority and following rules in different settings.

At home, they can learn to ask questions respectfully and seek guidance from their parents or guardians. This verse can remind them to listen to their parents and honor their wisdom and guidance.

In school, they can apply this message by following the rules set by their teachers and asking for help when needed. It teaches them to respect authority figures in their educational environment.

With friends, this verse can encourage them to communicate kindly and respectfully, understanding that everyone has a role to play in different situations. They can learn to listen to each other and seek understanding before speaking.

Overall, this verse teaches children the importance of respect, order, and honoring authority in various aspects of their lives.

Craft or Activity

Let's create a "Message in a Bottle" craft activity to help children understand and remember the message of 1 Corinthians 14:35.

Materials needed:
- Small glass or plastic bottles
- Paper
- Pens or markers
- Decorative items like stickers, ribbons, or glitter
- Water

Instructions:
1. Provide each child with a small bottle and a piece of paper.
2. Ask them to write or draw a message related to the Bible verse on the paper. They can write about the importance of learning from their husbands at home or respecting the rules in church.
3. Encourage them to decorate the paper with pens, markers, and any other decorative items they like.
4. Roll up the paper and place it inside the bottle.
5. If using glass bottles, help the children fill them with water before sealing them shut. If using plastic bottles, they can seal them with the cap.
6. Optionally, they can further decorate the outside of the bottle with stickers, ribbons, or glitter.
7. Explain to them that just like how the message is kept safe in the bottle, they should keep the teachings of the Bible safe in their hearts and minds.

This craft activity can serve as a tangible reminder of the message from 1 Corinthians 14:35 and encourage children to reflect on its meaning in a creative and engaging way.

Memory Verse or Rhyme

In church, we show respect and care,
Women listen and learn quietly there.
Ask your husband at home, you'll see,
Learning together, how God wants us to be.

Songs or Videos

There are many Christian songs and videos for kids that focus on themes of respect, learning, and following biblical teachings. One recommended song that may relate to the message in 1 Corinthians 14:35 is "Be Still and Know" by Hillsong Kids. This song encourages children to trust in God and seek wisdom from Him.

Another song that promotes learning and seeking guidance is "Thy Word" by Amy Grant. This song is based on Psalm 119:105, which says, "Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path." It teaches children the importance of turning to God's Word for direction and understanding.

Both of these songs can help reinforce the message of seeking wisdom and learning in the context of biblical teachings.

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